love

i am learning a lot about showing love. Our houseworker has so much to do. I know that this will be a shock to those that really know me, but i keep my room very clean so she doesn't have to really do anything for my room, but still everyday i go in and she has moved around my decorations. Moved my candles into a different formation. I think that she does this to show that she cares about me and wants me to know she spends time doing things for me. But it makes me laugh everytime. In the same way the guard always takes my bags when I come through the door. i could have walked 5 miles with them and been fine but when i enter my yard they will be taken from me and carried into the house. Even when all I have is a loaf of bread in a sack it will be taken. This too makes me laugh. i am tempted to resist but I know that this is also a sign of respect. My local friends will always agree to spend time with me, even if they are sick and should be in bed, if I ask they are wherever I ask them to be. I have to really ask about them and thier lifes to find out about the illnesses. Then I am like why did you not just tell me that? I have much to learn from new friends about showing love to the people i care about.